Spooning gets a bad rap for being the go-to sex position of the hungover or lazy. But hear me out: Some of the hottest sex you'll ever have can happen in this cozy setup. For one, the skin-to-skin contact is unparalleled: You're literally attached from the neck down to your feet. And last but not least: Because of the physical closeness, there are so many opportunities for extra sensation, says Janet Brito , PhD, a licensed clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist in Honolulu, Hawaii.

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Spooning is great for intimacy — it's basically just a cuddle and fuck combined — but sometimes, you want moooorrrrrrrre. Here's what to do:. First, press your legs firmly together for a tighter feel. Second, tilt your pelvis down a little so your clit is getting more contact with the top of his penis. Third, fill his hand with lube and press it between your legs so he's cupping you.